xfrm: fix a race in xfrm_state_lookup_byspi

The returned xfrm_state should be hold before unlock xfrm_state_lock,
otherwise the returned xfrm_state maybe be released.

Fixes: c454997e

[{pktgen, xfrm} Introduce xfrm_state_lookup_byspi..]
Cc: Fan Du <fan.du@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Li RongQing <roy.qing.li@gmail.com>
Acked-by: Fan Du <fan.du@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>